Almost as promised (I can’t bring myself to do direct quotes for fear they could somehow be harmful to people) documented examples in a list of things she has done in her DARVO cycles to people other than me. I am continuing to lean into my protected right to speech: Clearly stating what is my experience, what I have found in public record (databases and public records requests from police and the courts) and what others have communicated to me in writing.
As of today, there are 12 identified adult victims, including myself.
Destruction of Property: Keyed her ex-wife’s car; vandalism of people’s cars in ways other than keying and arson.
Threats of Harm to Self: Threatened suicide; showed people bloodied, bandaged forearms.
Verbal Assault: via text and in person that degrade a person’s body, sexuality, parenting. Slander to others about same.
Claims of Abuse: Claims of people breaking into her house while she slept; being poisoned. Claiming old injuries are now caused by physical abuse that was never inflicted by the person she blames. She has made multiple false police reports and attempts at orders of protection for herself against people who have never abused her, but have employed boundaries with her. Spreading libel and slander about same.
Harassment of Bystanders: Of people who appear to take the side of her identified villain/victim (meaning, they do not blindly believe her at first); these people become bystander victims who either find ways to avoid her or manage her by playing along. (This is connected to how she generates her stable of Flying Monkeys and circle of fear which is the only power she has. Other than a significant amount of settlement money from her lucrative divorce.)
Harassment and Stalking of Targets: For bystanders who become targets, people who set boundaries with her, or just the lucky (mostly) gals who catch her eye (seems she may be branching out to eNBy cuties…altogether we are really cute, ya’ll). Showing up at homes, workplaces, etc. Befriending/ingratiating our social circle (if they’ll let her…my people were too protective to want anything to do with her after meeting her). The court granted a petition for an Order of Protection, restraining Michelle in 2022-23 (Case No. 22-2-08263-06).
Unwanted Sexual Contact: Being sexually aggressive with people without their consent. The first account of this I heard was horrifying but somehow not surprising. But the second. Also horrifying–but now there’s a pattern emerging. And maybe a way forward for victims who now know they aren’t alone.
Reckless/Illegal Behavior like DUI: Denying her own DUI behaviors and blaming others for poisoning her. Similarly, Michelle told me that the reason she had a BAC meter connected to her vehicle was because the new wife of her ex “got a DUI” and the insurance company wanted to make sure “no one was driving any of [ex-wife’s] covered cars drunk…I agreed to have one put on my car too.” And her current trial judge mentioned Michelle’s DUI and other “trouble in Camas” in her first arraignment–which is in the court transcript. The initial police report about Michelle stalking me also conspicuously redacts the destruction of her ex-wife’s property–but it is abundantly clear that is the reference.
Stalking: Showing up at people’s homes, events or places she know’s we’ll be.
Weaponizing her Chronic Lies: Publicly telling anyone who will listen, extensive and damaging lies to make the behavior she can’t hide justifiable. One such set of lies at a party in February resulted in 2 of her flying monkeys calling one of my employers–who gave the sage advice that they call and make a board complaint if they are actually concerned. I’m wrapping up with a WA Department of Health Board complaint that was inspired by her public and private storytelling, and emboldened by these rabidly insecure people.
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